Hi. I just joined this community. It seems kind of dead, unfortunately. Maybe a new member will perk it up? I'm 39 (today, actually), and I live with my boyfriend Andrew (as well as 2 housemates and my daughter). I've been with A. for four years. He has depression and anxiety. I have my own history with these issues, but I respond very well to effexor, so I'm pretty functional. So far, A. hasn't found any medication that helps, but he's in therapy, and working on himself. He doesn't have much paying work, and has problems with self-care. I love him a ton, and often I feel at a loss regarding his emotional problems, so I'm hoping to have some folks to talk to who understand.